Wellbeing blog  ·  Carers

For carers: looking after you too

Supporting someone you love is demanding. Your wellbeing matters as well, and it’s okay to ask for help.

4 minute read  ·  15 November 2026

In short

  • Caring for someone with a brain tumour is a lot to carry.
  • Sharing jobs and protecting a little time for yourself really helps.
  • You can ask your council for a free carer’s assessment.

What is it?

A carer is anyone who helps a partner, relative or friend who couldn’t manage without them. You might be driving to appointments, organising medicines, doing paperwork and offering comfort, often while worried yourself.

Step by step

  1. Share the load

    Give friends and family specific jobs, like a weekly meal or a lift to hospital.

  2. Protect a little time

    Even half an hour that is just yours, for a walk or a cup of tea, can help you reset.

  3. Look after your own health

    Keep your own appointments and tell your GP you are a carer.

  4. Talk about how you feel

    With a friend, a carers’ group, or a helpline. You don’t have to be strong all the time.

  5. Ask for a carer’s assessment

    Your local council can look at what support you need. It’s free.

When to get help

Feeling tired, tearful, angry or guilty is common, and it doesn’t mean you are doing it wrong. If it feels too much, speak to your GP, or call Samaritans free on 116 123.

Helpful links

Not medical advice. This guide shares general wellbeing ideas. It can’t replace advice from your doctor or care team. In an emergency call 999.